Dear Isadora,
Today's post is brought to you by a very special guest blogger -- your Daddy. The following is the story of your birth as told by your Daddy. Enjoy sweet pea.
Love,
Mommy
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It had been almost an entire week since your due date. Mommy and I were getting sick of waiting around for you and started to think you had decided that you were just going to stay in there forever. We had tried everything to get things moving. We tried taking long walks. We tried spicy foods. We tried swimming. We tried playing Pink Floyd’s “Dark Side of the Moon” to the
Wizard of Oz. We tried everything everyone said would work… They didn’t.
Mommy and I had decided that it wasn’t going to happen that night either. We settled in for another lazy night of watching television and waiting for you.
And then it happened. Mommy let out a grunt and held her tummy. I did what I always did when Mommy did this. I asked, “You ok?” She said, “Yes,” but this felt different. We started timing her pains and soon realized that the length of the pains and how far apart they were (12-15 minutes) could be contractions. Mommy and I played it cool. I think we both thought that if we didn’t think about it too much, maybe this would be the day.
An hour went by and then something else happened. Your Mommy fell asleep. Since I have never heard of anyone sleeping through labor and birth, I figured it was a false alarm and took your mother to bed for another night of wishing you were here.
A couple hours later, Mommy woke me up and said she thought it was time to go to the hospital. I didn’t know what was going on. I had just woken up, your Mom was yelling at me, there was luggage on the bed, and for some reason
Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs was on the television. I got it together quick, looked your Mommy in eyes, and told her something that I don’t think she will ever forget -- “Before we do anything, I have to go to the bathroom.” Once that was taken care of, I moved on to the next step on the action plan I had come up with while going to the bathroom. I texted your Uncle Josh and told him, “It’s go time.” Your Uncle lives hundreds of miles away and wasn’t going to be able to help at all, but I thought this was the next right step.
Mommy and I got into the car and headed to the hospital. We got to the hospital, and we had to wait in a room for a couple of minutes before the nurse came to get us. They brought Mommy into another room and gave her a gown and a cup to get a urine sample. Mommy went to the bathroom and I waited. And waited… And waited… And waited. I was starting to get worried that Mommy had fallen asleep in the bathroom, or, even worse, that our little miracle was coming NOW! It turns out it was a miracle -- for the first time in four months, your Mommy didn’t have to go to the bathroom. After that, Mommy and I settled into our room and waited for the next contraction.
Your Mommy was doing great. Every couple of minutes she would get a contraction, and we knew you were getting closer to being here. Your Mommy and I would sleep for 3-4 minutes at time between contractions and wake up all of a sudden and breath together and then go back to sleep. Your Mommy wanted to try and have you with no drugs involved, and, so far, she was doing great. She was in a little pain, but nothing she couldn’t handle yet. And then it happened. For the first time since we have known each other, your Mother gave me a look that made it pretty clear that if given the right tools, she could rip my head off and disembowel me in under 20 seconds. Your Mom said she was starting to rethink the use of drugs. I told her maybe we should wait a little longer to see if the next contractions were that bad. Your Mother “respectfully disagreed,” and the drugs were brought in. It didn’t take all the pain away, but it made it a little easier on your Mommy.
By this time your Aunt Barbara and Obaachan (Grandma) had arrived at the hospital. But you still hadn’t arrived, and, to be honest, it looked like you had changed your mind. The contractions were getting further apart and your Mommy wasn’t dilating at a very quick rate. That’s when we were faced with a very difficult decision. In order to keep the labor moving and get you here, we had to break Mommy’s water. It hadn’t broken yet, and it meant you weren’t able to get to where you were supposed to be. The pain of the contractions was going to get worse once the water was broken. The nurse asked your Mommy if she wanted an epidural. Your Mommy was dreading this moment for weeks. She was very nervous and scared about getting one. We finally decided that we should do it. It was the first time I cried that day. It was so hard to see your Mommy that nervous and worried, but we got through it.
Mommy Post Epidural
That’s when we entered the phase of labor I like to call “smiling, happy, reading magazines labor.” By this time, your Grandma Joyce had arrived at the hospital. So your Mommy, me, Aunt Barbara, Obaachan, and Grandma Joyce settled in to wait for you to arrive.
Grandma Joyce Irene and Obaachan Suemi
At 4 o’clock p.m. the nurse checked your Mommy. She had been checking her every hour or so and there was very little change. But this time when the nurse checked your Mommy, she said you were on your way and that it was time to start pushing. Everyone in the room was shocked. We thought it was going to take longer than this.
Excited to Become Your Parents
Your Aunt and two Grandmas were actually able to stay in the room while your mommy was pushing. I am going to spare you the details of the next hour and 15 minutes. Some of it was pretty ugly. I thought I was going to throw up or pass out, mostly from being so nervous. Your Mommy was doing a great job of pushing and your family cheering section was rooting you on. Your Aunt Barbara was the first to see you as your head started to come out and go back in.
By the way if you ever have a friend who is pregnant and is trying to figure out a way to speed up going into labor, tell them to watch Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs. Trust me, it works every time.
